Heart Talk

For all the singles:  If you're still in an undefined relationship with your lover after one year...  If you are in a relationship not headed for the aisle after five years...  If you are in a one-sided relationship where in you're the one doing all the loving, calling, caring, talking, supporting...  If you are in a relationship full of cheating...  If you are in a relationship full of coercion, manipulations and deceptions...  If you are in a relationship full of distrust for no reasons whatsoever...  If you are in a relationship full of verbal and emotional abuses...  If you are in a relationship where you hardly agree on anything...  If you are in a relationship where you're "tolerated" and not loved...  If you are in a relationship where money and material gains are the focus and reason...  If you are in a relationship where sex, sex and only sex is the subject of discussion all the time...  ...

Falling in love is a uniquely intense period of time for anyone. But we need to sort out a lot of other questions during a falling-in-love phase: Beyond clear attraction, is this person someone who will support you, respect you, understand you, and be compassionate with you? And does this person share your values and priorities? Here are few tips to guide you. 1. When you fall in love make sure it' s with somebody who treats you exactly how you deserve to be treated..  2. Love somebody who wants to know everything about you, from your favorite color to your childhood memories how you managed to survive all those years...  3. Love somebody who can make you laugh, who kisses your forehead and who notices all your flaws but chooses to see past them...  4. Love somebody who listens to whatever is on your mind, who protects you and always reminds you how blessed they are to have found you...  5. Love somebody who you can 't stay mad at for more than ...

Understanding your man is the first key to a successful marriage/relationship. No man is difficult, ignorance is what makes it difficult. If you want men to fall in love with you and your fiance/husband to treat you like the greatest treasure on earth, you must understand what makes a man a man, the right buttons to click and how to enjoy a sweet, blissful, heaven on earth marriage with him. 1. MEN HAVE FIRST LOVE: They are passionate about it and that is his work. A man must succeed. Not making progress in life is like being impotent, he feels castrated! You must understand this and give him space to succeed. This requires time, efforts, focus, sleepless nights. To demand he spend all his working hours watching romantic movie with you is to turn him to a perpetual failure! Idle ladies who have nothing sensible doing with their lives except disturb their fiance at work per minute, per second to fill their empty life are a big turn off! 2. MEN HAVE EGO: He needs it to be the head...