Time To Cut The "SHIT" Off....

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For all the singles: 

If you're still in an undefined relationship with your lover after one year... 
If you are in a relationship not headed for the aisle after five years... 
If you are in a one-sided relationship where in you're the one doing all the loving, calling, caring, talking, supporting... 
If you are in a relationship full of cheating... 
If you are in a relationship full of coercion, manipulations and deceptions... 
If you are in a relationship full of distrust for no reasons whatsoever... 
If you are in a relationship full of verbal and emotional abuses... 
If you are in a relationship where you hardly agree on anything... 
If you are in a relationship where you're "tolerated" and not loved... 
If you are in a relationship where money and material gains are the focus and reason... 
If you are in a relationship where sex, sex and only sex is the subject of discussion all the time... 
If you are in a relationship in which you don 't have peace, conviction and assurance... 
If you are in a relationship in which you are confused every now and then... 
If you are in a relationship in which you are not feeling loved or being loved despite loving that person so much... 
If you are in a relationship in which you keep having nightmares about your lover... 
If you are in a relationship with an unbeliever... 
If you are in a relationship with someone who isn't lover of God like yourself... 
If you are in a relationship with someone who doesn't show same level of interest and commitment as you... 

If you are in a relationship with someone who isn't sharing same marriage ideologies with you..

Then know for sure that you're in some kind of shits and you must cut them off before the end of this year. You see, you can't be headed in the wrong direction in your love life and expect to arrive at the right destination. 

 Heading to a wrong direction always results in missing one's way, being lost, and sometimes being confused. The handling of a love relationship isn't difficult at all. 

 All you need do is to understand the principles and stick to the rules. Sometimes breaking the smallest of principles may come with serious consequences. 

Dear singles, you can 't continue to be deluded, ignorant, devastated, confused or weeping over a love relationship. You can 't continue to lose your peace or your sanity over a man or a woman who is wasting your time and emotions. 

 You deserve better. Stop all the pretence you've lived with all these years. If it's not working, it's not working. So let go of it so that God will give you his good. You've struggled enough in a relationship. 

 Now it's TIME TO CUT ALL THE SHITS.

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