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I have discovered that LOVE doesn't guarantee success in a relationship.  Love cannot help you stick to one person all years round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner.  In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else. Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart.  It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self-discipline, because time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you are in a relationship with. In those times, love will not help you; self-control will help you, emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going.  With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you are committed to will rank first in your life. You think happily married people don't see better people th...

Respect is a way you treat or think about something or someone. You show respect by being polite and kind. For a lot of people, taking your hat off is a show of respect. When people are insulted or treated badly, they feel they haven't been treated with respect. You can respect things as well as people. Below are few tips that will help you gain a woman's respect without a shout or demanding to be respected. 1. Always leave money in your pocket for her to take not steal oh. The higher the denomination the higher the respect. If you leave N10, you get N10 respect. But for the highest of highest respect, leave hard currency. This is necessary. When she wakes up in the morning, you 'll see how happy she's because she has succeeded. 2. Never ever argue with her on the price of anything. If she tells you a bag of rice is 30k, don't argue. Just give her the money. No need calling papa John to ask how much is it. It brings about see finish.If she tells you no mil...

From my inbox, here are questions that needs answers. Feel free to share your response too. Let's help each other. Madam Vicky, I need help, my man complains that I nag a lot. He says I should be his peace. I really love him and I don't want to lose him. How do I stop nagging especially when I'm angry. I don't want us to be fighting all the times. Recently he said if I don't stop he will lose his love for me and I'll turn him to a flirt. Again, my boyfriend post my pictures no doubt oh but he doesn't do it frequently like I do. Whenever I complain he will say he's not a social media kind of person, and he can still post me everyday and still cheats on me. Saying his main focus is on how to get a stable job and start his life properly so we live better. Question: Do I force him to post me? *To your first request for help, men don't like women who nags and complain over every little things. You have control over yourself, you own it. Le...

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“ Love means knowing that no matter what, you have someone to count on. It's unconditional and makes you feel good on the inside. You can trust the person you love and are comfortable around them. It's like your heart tells you that it is good for you. Never judge the love of a woman. She might catch you in bed with another girl, storm out of the bedroom with tears and leave. Then you call her several times but no answer, then a few days later you receive her call back. But my Brother Never think that she can't live without You!! That girl really loves you. It's not some kind of stupidity.   Girls get hurt and sometimes they choose to believe you and think you might change to become a better person for them. Flowers and expensive gifts won't make her forget what you once did to her. That smile she gives you doesn't mean everything is now okay. It still hurts inside.   Pain is something we can live with. No matter how much you break her Heart she a...

Sex is a major concern especially to our Christian girls. They have heard how sweet it can be with someone that knows what he is doi n g . And have also heard how unfulfi l ling It can be with someone that doesn't know what he is doing.  They might not have done it,  but trust me,  they know. Sadly, that's why many want to do a test run before the marriage. I talk to a lot of girls, one of the things I have observed is that the girls are scared, especially because they didn't keep themselves all this while just to come and have shabby sex in marriage.  Do You know why they are scared? Because you have not assured them one way or the other that you don't plan to be a missionary man that is not dogmatic. Listen bro, if you are in a serious relationship that is leading to marriage and you guys are keeping yourselves,  you owe her the duty of putting  her mind to rest by telling her that you will do your best to satisfy her sexually.  Let her know...

Hello ladies and gentlemen, welcome to my blog ''HEART TALK''. You can call me Madam Vicky. I will be your host here sharing experiences and finding solutions to issues you feel you can share and get solutions to. Heart Talk is a Lifestyle, Family, Relationship, Marriage and Career Blog. On this blog not just you get to learn, I personally will be learning as well, with this we get to overcome whatever we are going through. Feel free to share your happy moments, sad moments, heartbreaks, advice you feel others will benefits.   I am open to suggestions and contributions in any form.  Lets make this a wonderful and large community. To share your thoughts, stories, issues, seek help, advice, or business, please contact us on email akpasen2017@gmail.com. You can also follow us on our facebook page https://www.facebook.com/Hearttokk/