Sex and a Church girl

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Sex is a major concern especially to our Christian girls. They have heard how sweet it can be with someone that knows what he is doing. And have also heard how unfulfilling It can be with someone that doesn't know what he is doing. 

 They might not have done it,  but trust me,  they know. Sadly, that's why many want to do a test run before the marriage. I talk to a lot of girls, one of the things I have observed is that the girls are scared, especially because they didn't keep themselves all this while just to come and have shabby sex in marriage. 

 Do You know why they are scared? Because you have not assured them one way or the other that you don't plan to be a missionary man that is not dogmatic. Listen bro, if you are in a serious relationship that is leading to marriage and you guys are keeping yourselves,  you owe her the duty of putting  her mind to rest by telling her that you will do your best to satisfy her sexually. 

 Let her know that even if you don't know it, you will put in the work to make it an experience everytime you get down. . I'm not saying you should go all seducing on her. In fact if that is what you understood then I don't think you are ready for marriage. You guys have to talk about it.  It is not a sin. If you are old enough to be in a relationship, then you are old enough to hear and say certain things.

 Marriage is 100% spiritual and it's 100% carnal.. You have to understand this before saying 'yes  I Do'. Let me even ask you sef, apart from the number of kids you both want to have,  do you guys talk about anything else?  Let her be optimistic about your wedding night. Read valid educative sex books. Sex itself is holy, and it was created by God for marriage, it is an Art..It can be learnt. Nobody was born a professional.. 

 That means there are tutors that can teach you. Not necessarily porn movies. Movies just teaches you how to have sex,  but what you really need is to know how to make love.  Porn gives you knowledge but education through books and professional teachers gives you understanding, and that is what is needed.

 Don't let shyness ruin your marriage before it even starts.. Las Las what I'm saying is 'Get Sex Education.' As a married man or woman, You have an obligation to Sexual Satisfaction as much as you do to Spiritual Covering.

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  1. UnknownApril 2, 2020 at 10:11 PM

    This article is awesome and a very interesting, funny enough so true... I was actually scared at the mention of sex, but... Way to go girl

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  2. UnknownApril 3, 2020 at 1:25 AM

    Everything said 100% true. Men and women, ladies nd gents, boys and girls all need sex education. Ignorance of the truth about sex has crashed a lot of marriages and serious relationships.

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