Relationship Matters

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From my inbox, here are questions that needs answers. Feel free to share your response too. Let's help each other.

 Madam Vicky, I need help, my man complains that I nag a lot. He says I should be his peace. I really love him and I don't want to lose him. How do I stop nagging especially when I'm angry. I don't want us to be fighting all the times. Recently he said if I don't stop he will lose his love for me and I'll turn him to a flirt.

 Again, my boyfriend post my pictures no doubt oh but he doesn't do it frequently like I do. Whenever I complain he will say he's not a social media kind of person, and he can still post me everyday and still cheats on me. Saying his main focus is on how to get a stable job and start his life properly so we live better.

 Question: Do I force him to post me?

 *To your first request for help, men don't like women who nags and complain over every little things. You have control over yourself, you own it. Let's do it this way, whenever he does something that gets you angry and you want to start the usual, take a walk than talking. Ignore the issue at that particular time and get yourself busy or sleep instead if you can. when you're calm, and he's in a good mood, sit him down and express your feelings politely and don't shout. He will apologies if you say it in a calm mood even though you're hurt, he will respect your opinion. If you continue nagging,you will lose him. If you notice whenever there's issues and you nag, you will end up apologizing for something he is supposed to say sorry for. Pray to God to help you too and work on yourself.  

 *To your second question, posting your pictures on social media doesn't guarantee love or a lasting relationship. He's a man and knows what's right . Don't force him to do something he's not willing so he doesn't complain at the end. Him posting your pictures once in a while means he's protecting you and keeping his relationship private. 

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