Heart Talk

In Nigeria, divorce is often viewed as a taboo, carrying a heavy stigma that affects not only the couple but also their families. When a marriage ends, the question of "who's to blame?" echoes through society. But what about the victim? How do they overcome the shame and find the courage to walk away? Let me share a story about Rita and Eric.  Rita, a beautiful woman from Anambra, married Eric a charming man from Kogi. Their union seemed perfect, but behind closed doors, Eric's infidelity and emotional abuse ravaged Rita's self-worth. Rita endured years of pain, hiding behind a mask of happiness. She felt trapped, unsure of how to escape the toxic relationship. Eric's family blamed her for his infidelity, saying she wasn't "good enough." Societal pressure mounted, labeling her a "failed wife." One fateful night, Rita found the courage to walk away. With tears streaming down her face, she packed her bags and left. The weight of shame and...

Love is a beautiful feeling, but is it enough to sustain a relationship? In Nigeria, where cultural expectations and societal pressures can weigh heavily on couples, this question takes on even greater significance. Meet Nneoma and Femi, a young Nigerian couple whose story will make you wonder: is love truly enough? Nneoma, a beautiful Igbo girl from Enugu, met Femi, a charming Yoruba boy from Lagos, at a friend's wedding in Abuja. Their eyes locked, and sparks flew. Despite their cultural differences, they connected instantly. Their relationship blossomed, with Femi showering Nneoma with affection and gifts. He took her to the best restaurants in Lagos, surprised her with trips to Dubai, and wrote heartfelt love letters. Nneoma felt like a queen. But as time passed, reality set in. Femi's family didn't approve of Nneoma's Igbo heritage. Nneoma's parents worried about Femi's financial stability. The cultural divide seemed insurmountable. The Challenges  1. Famil...

In the midst of life’s struggles and uncertainties, it’s easy to feel abandoned or overlooked. When prayers seem unanswered or when silence stretches too long, we may wonder if God has forgotten us. Yet, one of the most comforting truths is that God will never send us away empty. Throughout the Bible, we see numerous examples of God’s abundant provision. Whether it’s the widow whose oil never ran out, or the crowd that Jesus fed with just a few loaves and fish, God continually demonstrates His ability and willingness to meet our needs. His promises remain as true today as they were then. God’s Provision is Abundant In the story of Ruth, we see a beautiful picture of God’s provision. Ruth, a Moabite woman, left everything she knew to follow her mother-in-law Naomi back to Bethlehem. They returned with nothing, but by the end of her journey, Ruth found herself in a place of abundance. She met Boaz, was redeemed, and her story became part of the lineage of Jesus Christ. Like Ruth, you...

Do you often feel like you're just pretending to be competent, waiting for someone to expose you as a fraud? Do you doubt your abilities, despite your accomplishments? Self-doubt and imposter syndrome can feel like relentless shadows, whispering that we’re not enough or that we don’t belong. You’re not alone in this struggle; many talented individuals grapple with these feelings, even those who seem confident on the surface. It's time to shatter the mirror of self-doubt and reveal your true potential. Imposter syndrome isn’t just about feeling inadequate; it’s a pervasive mindset that can distort our self-perception. But recognizing these feelings is the first step to overcoming them. There's this young talented marketing executive who landed her dream job. Yet, she couldn't shake off the feeling that she didn't deserve it. "I'm just faking it," she'd think. "Someone will soon discover I have no idea what I'm doing." This is familiar...